Condoms, the effective and often whimsical tools for safe sex are more often than not associated with men and their penises. But don’t forget, women have their STD super weapons too. With myths and stigmas surrounding their use, many people, especially women, hesitate to consider female condoms as an option for contraception and STD prevention. 

Female condoms are barrier contraceptive devices, just like male condoms, but are designed with the woman’s body in mind. Unlike male condoms, they fit into the vagina before sexual intercourse. Their role is like that of male condoms: to prevent unwanted pregnancies and protect against sexually transmitted diseases. 

The advantages of using female condoms?

Although they’re not as popular as their male counterparts, female condoms are available almost everywhere. You can purchase female condoms over the counter at medical stores, often without the need for a prescription.

Another advantage is their versatility. Female condoms are safe to use during menstruation, pregnancy, and childbirth. Rumors have it you can even use them in zero gravity space flight, but these are just rumors. 

When used correctly, female condoms have a 95% effectiveness rate against unwanted pregnancies. This is just under the effectiveness of male condoms but still makes them incredibly dependable. And, alongside contraception, they offer an additional layer of protection against STDs.

If you suffer from allergies to latex, fear not. Female condoms are typically made from nitrile, and do not cause those pesky skin irritations or allergies that some male latex condoms do. 
On top of all that, female condoms can be inserted up to eight hours before sexual activity, giving you more flexibility in your planning.

Female condoms are compatible with both water-based and oil-based lubricants without compromising effectiveness. They also have a longer shelf life compared to their male counterparts—up to five years without being affected by sun or humidity.

And now for the disadvantages

There aren’t many disadvantages with female condoms. However, there are a few downsides, just like their male counterparts. 

The first negative, according to many buyers, is how much they cost. Female condoms are generally more expensive than male condoms. This makes them less desirable, especially for people on strict budgets. 

Unfortunately, some women report feeling discomfort or reduced pleasure because of the barrier affecting clitoral stimulation. Although not all women report feeling less, it is something to consider if you’re thinking of making the switch. 

Female condoms are also more limited when it comes to size and the typical extras that male condoms come with. First, they typically come in only two sizes—medium and large—which may not suit everyone’s body. Second, say goodbye to the spermicidal gel that helps make male condoms that much more effective as a contraceptive. 

Important tips for making the most out of your female condoms

Although female condoms are straightforward and easy to use, it’s important to keep a few considerations in mind. Below are a few tips to help make female condoms easier and safer to use. 

  • Never use female and male condoms together; the friction may lead to tearing and actually make sex less safe. 
  • Avoid using sharp objects to open the packaging, as this can damage the condom.
  • If the female condom bunches up or breaks, replace it immediately.
  • Remove any tampons or menstrual cups before insertion.
  • You should remove the condom immediately after sex to prevent sperm spillage.
  • Always read and follow the instructions on the packet.

While the conversation around female condoms often centers around women’s experiences, most men feel relatively neutral or positive about them. While female condoms have a bunch of benefits, they aren’t without their drawbacks, such as cost and limited availability. Getting to know these pros and cons can empower both men and women to make informed choices about their sexual health. Afterall, female condoms, like male condoms, are just more weapons in your arsenal of protection and this makes them a good thing.